Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Politics and Such

You know the old adage, "never discuss politics or religion"?  Let's just say that if my family embraced that notion, we wouldn't have a whole lot to talk about!  We love those two topics and it makes our gatherings very lively and enjoyable.  Our children are accustomed to hearing such exchanges, so it comes as no surprise that Sweet Potato (who happens to be 10 years old), is showing great interest during this election season.  He wants to know who Monkey and I will be voting for, but more importantly, he's asking why.  He has listened to some of the debates, pays particular attention when he hears something regarding the election on the radio or T.V., and has gotten into a few discussions at school with his teachers and classmates.  

Although I can answer with certainty who will be getting my vote on the national level, I'm still unsure about some of the local races, particularly our city council.  Sweet Potato has asked me many times who I will be supporting, and each time I have answered that I do not know enough about the candidates to make an informed decision yet.  While reading our local newspaper a few days ago, Sweet Potato came across the announcement that there would be a forum at City Hall, sponsored by the League of Women Voters.  He said, "I think we should go to this to learn more about the candidates."  I couldn't argue with that, so last night, we headed over to City Hall to hear what the candidates for Mayor and the City Council had to say.

More than what we heard at the forum last night, the most valuable part of the evening was on our walk home. Sweet Potato asked how to respond to those people who do not agree with me (politically).  Basically he was asking how I get along with family and friends who differ from my views.  I explained to him that no matter what a person's beliefs, we are to treat everyone with dignity and respect.  We never resort to name-calling or vilifying (actual policies are a different story).  This, of course, becomes more challenging if others do not reciprocate the same respect.  I gave Sweet Potato a few examples of people who I care about very much, but we do not see eye-to-eye politically.  I don't care for them any less, but I explained the whole "agree to disagree" relationship.  

This morning on the way to school (have you noticed how much conversation is had between me and my kids in the van?  I am extremely thankful for this time with them), Honey Bunches asked what will happen if the people I vote for lose.  I told him I will be disappointed, but I will never be hopeless.  I can only put so much faith in government.  The key for me is keeping my eyes on Jesus, because in the end, He is the only one I will have to answer to, and with Him, I will never lose hope.

Sirach 1:27:  For the fear of the Lord is wisdom and instruction, and he delights in fidelity and meekness.

3 comments:

  1. You are one smart cookie, Shelly, and a wonderful parent! GREAT post!!

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  2. Thank you for sharing this. The Meekness...that's the hard part for me.... :(

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